It takes 21 days to create a
habit or to break one.
Now you can use Doug Leland's “Balance Beam” tool to monitor
your progress as you create more balance and harmony in your life
(download it here).
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Balance Beam Instructions
First section
The first section of the Balance Beam lets you identify and
track five to 10 activities that should become daily habits
because they are important to you, doing them is
responsible, they provide the body nourishment, or they
satisfy a basic need. Some examples might be exercise, diet,
drinking sufficient water, taking vitamins, limiting
television, etc.
Everything you identify is something
that you are going to want to do from this day forward.
Don't over-promise to get started. Identify at least five .
. . and more if it feels right.
Second section
The second section lets you identify activities that bring
joy to your life. These are items that you really look
forward to and perhaps routinely deny yourself. If you were
living alone on a deserted island, these are things you
would do each day because you could, you would want to, and
you wouldn't have any other responsibilities or obligations.
These items are aligned with your values and provide
nourishment to your heart and soul. These, too, are to
become daily habits, so make room for them and make these
activities sacred. These are the activities that will
recharge your battery and keep you energized.
Some
examples might be reading, gardening, connecting with
friends, journaling, listening to music, playing music or
learning to play an instrument, painting, drawing, working
out, yoga, cooking, needle pointing, walking on the beach,
going to the library, enjoying a cup of coffee at your
favorite coffee shop, etc.
Identify at least five and
more if you have the space. If you want to do more and don't
have the space, make the space and then allow these
activities to fill the void.
Bottom sections
Some activities that bring you joy may more appropriately be
weekly activities such as a date night with your spouse, an
outing with the kids, attending church, etc. The bottom
section lets you capture these items. In addition, there may
be times you want to focus on something special, perhaps to
create a new habit, break an old one, or tackle a special
project. There's space at the bottom of the chart to capture
these as well.
How to use
To use Balance Beam, simply fill in the chart and make these
activities regular habits. Mark an "x" in the box or check
off completed items each day in order to track your
progress. Watch for patterns—which items easily become
routine, which ones are more of a struggle? What's causing
the struggle? Are some days or weeks better than others?
What happens when you travel or your home routine is
disrupted?
Feel free to alter activities until the list
feels right for you, and don't be too hard on yourself if it
takes awhile to make these activities part of your
routine—but make the commitment to make them routine, and
get started now!